am not a commodity

Let's see what famous people said about friends:

"A friend is someone, who upon seeing another friend in immense pain, would rather be the one experiencing the pain than to have to watch their friend suffer."
- Amanda Grier

" Choose your friends carefully. Your enemies will choose you."
-Yassir Arafat

"if you haven't learned what friendship means then you haven't learned anything"
-muhamid alli

Yeah, you see their talking about how you need a friend to survive in your life. But not to commodify your friends. NEVER ever makes your friend think she's been used by you. It;s not cool, never ever will be cool.

This is a short post, too furious and disappointed.